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SOUL MATES
Myrna Lou Goldbaum, Columnist
T his is an excerpt taken from my book, SOUL MATE CONNECTIONS Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Relationships, Love, Romance and Soul Mates
RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES CHECKLIST
Six mistakes to avoid in the beginning of any relationship:
1. Not asking enough questions
2. Ignoring warning signs of potential problems
3. Making premature compromises
4. Giving in to blind lust right away
5. Giving in to seduction
6. Putting commitment before compatibility
Couples who share similar values have more success in having a harmonious, lasting relationship. When there are opposite value systems present tension is created which causes bickering and fighting. When they are soul mates, all things are equal and easy. It is the same as if both people have been together previously. In soul mate encounters this is true, for both have been on this planet before as someone else and because they have a karmic debt to repay their path crosses in this lifetime and they "CONNECT", (actually they reconnect).
In choosing the right partner one must look for character, not simply looks or personality. A common thread is present where both have similar interests, ambition, and goals for the future.
Below are 15 QUALITIES TO LOOK FOR IN A SOUL MATE
1. Commitment to learning and personal transformation
2. Emotionally open, compassionate
3. Integrity, honesty
4. Maturity, responsibility
5. Good self-esteem, self confident
6. Self-improvement
7. Positive attitude
8. Sharing ideas, opinions, and feelings
9. Trustworthiness
10. Sensitive
11. Passionate
12. Pride in self
13. Good self image
14. Cooperative
15. Sexual chemistry
There are five basic areas of a Soul Mate symbol.
Beginning at the bottom of the symbol and reading from bottom to top, they are as follows:
Communication
Visible Appearance of Couple
Spirituality
Sexual Compatibility
Religion
Note: The pyramid levels represent the variety of ways that two can connect on a deeper soul level with one another.
 SOUL MATE CONNECTIONS
Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Relationships, Love, Romance and Soul Mates
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